It’s a season of life we can embrace, master, and thrive in. As women, our bodies are powerhouses of change, and understanding what’s happening during menopause is the first step toward reclaiming our power.
Drawing from Dr. Mary Claire Haver’s groundbreaking book *The New Menopause*, let’s unpack the most common symptoms and discuss how you can take charge with evidence-backed strategies and a sprinkle of self-love.
Menopause is a natural transition, but it often comes with some not-so-fun surprises, all tied to a drop in estrogen and progesterone. If you are a woman in her forties you are likely getting closer to experiencing perimenopause. This is the time leading up to menopause which is one moment in time after 12 months of not having a period.Here’s a snapshot of the most common symptoms many women face:
1. Hot Flashes & Night Sweats
Your body’s thermostat goes rogue, causing those waves of heat that seem to come out of nowhere. (Hello, mid-meeting sweat storm!)
2. Mood Swings & Anxiety
Hormonal changes can leave you feeling like an emotional rollercoaster. Add daily stress to the mix, and it’s no wonder you feel frazzled.
3. Sleep Issues
Night sweats and fluctuating hormones can rob you of the restorative sleep you need.
4. Weight Gain & Slower Metabolism
Those pounds around your midsection? They’re not just “aging”—hormonal shifts and a slowing metabolism are often to blame.
5. Vaginal Dryness & Low Libido
These aren’t topics we always feel comfortable discussing, but they’re common and absolutely worth addressing.
Menopause doesn’t have to dictate your life. With the right tools, you can navigate this phase with strength, resilience, and even a little sass. No matter the symptoms it is important to seek guidance from your healthcare provider. Not all OB/GYN's that delivered your babies or you visited for your yearly well woman will be equipped to guide you so I recommend you find a provider that specializes in menopause care. You can find one here menopause.org Now for the tools to help you navigate:
1. Eat with Intention
- Phytoestrogens Are Your Friends: Foods like soy and flaxseed mimic estrogen and may ease symptoms like hot flashes.
- Bone-Boosting Foods: Load up on calcium and vitamin D to keep your bones strong.
- Cruciferous Veggies = Hormonal Magic: Broccoli, cauliflower, and Brussels sprouts contain compounds that support hormonal balance.
2. Move Your Body
- Strength training is your new BFF—it protects your bones, builds muscle, and fires up your metabolism.
- Low-impact activities like yoga or walking can improve your mood, lower stress, and even reduce symptoms like hot flashes.
3. Nourish Your Mind
- Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling to tackle mood swings and find clarity during this transition.
4. Lean on the Experts
- Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) can be life-changing when tailored to your unique needs. Work with a trusted provider to find what’s best for you.
This is your time to rewrite the narrative. Menopause isn’t the end of your vitality; it’s a chance to level up in every area of your life. And with the right tools, support, and mindset, you’ll come out stronger and more empowered than ever. If you have been suffering in silence and unsure of how to manage this new you, you have come to the right place. I have walked in your shoes. I understand the pain of not being in control of your emotions, body, sleep, and other symptoms that come with this change but you do not have to suffer through it.
I’ve been there, and I’ve walked this path with countless women. That’s why I created the “Menopause Sucks but It Doesn’t Have To” course—a self-paced program designed to help you master this phase with confidence, clarity, and calm.
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You’ve got this, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way. Let’s turn perimenopause and menopause from something you dread into a phase of life you absolutely own.
Juliana Garcia