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Thriving Through Menopause: Navigate Symptoms and Take Back Control

Menopause Isn't Something We Just Endure

It’s a season of life we can embrace, master, and thrive in. As women, our bodies are powerhouses of change, and understanding what’s happening during menopause is the first step toward reclaiming our power.


Drawing from Dr. Mary Claire Haver’s groundbreaking book *The New Menopause*, let’s unpack the most common symptoms and discuss how you can take charge with evidence-backed strategies and a sprinkle of self-love.



What’s Going On? The Most Common Menopause Symptoms


Menopause is a natural transition, but it often comes with some not-so-fun surprises, all tied to a drop in estrogen and progesterone. If you are a woman in her forties you are likely getting closer to experiencing perimenopause. This is the time leading up to menopause which is one moment in time after 12 months of not having a period.Here’s a snapshot of the most common symptoms many women face:


1. Hot Flashes & Night Sweats  

  Your body’s thermostat goes rogue, causing those waves of heat that seem to come out of nowhere. (Hello, mid-meeting sweat storm!)


2. Mood Swings & Anxiety  

  Hormonal changes can leave you feeling like an emotional rollercoaster. Add daily stress to the mix, and it’s no wonder you feel frazzled.


3. Sleep Issues  

  Night sweats and fluctuating hormones can rob you of the restorative sleep you need.


4. Weight Gain & Slower Metabolism  

  Those pounds around your midsection? They’re not just “aging”—hormonal shifts and a slowing metabolism are often to blame.


5. Vaginal Dryness & Low Libido  

  These aren’t topics we always feel comfortable discussing, but they’re common and absolutely worth addressing.


The Game Plan: How to Take Charge Like a Pro


Menopause doesn’t have to dictate your life. With the right tools, you can navigate this phase with strength, resilience, and even a little sass. No matter the symptoms it is important to seek guidance from your healthcare provider. Not all OB/GYN's that delivered your babies or you visited for your yearly well woman will be equipped to guide you so I recommend you find a provider that specializes in menopause care. You can find one here menopause.org Now for the tools to help you navigate:


1. Eat with Intention

  - Phytoestrogens Are Your Friends: Foods like soy and flaxseed mimic estrogen and may ease symptoms like hot flashes.

  - Bone-Boosting Foods: Load up on calcium and vitamin D to keep your bones strong.

  - Cruciferous Veggies = Hormonal Magic: Broccoli, cauliflower, and Brussels sprouts contain compounds that support hormonal balance.


2. Move Your Body

  - Strength training is your new BFF—it protects your bones, builds muscle, and fires up your metabolism.

  - Low-impact activities like yoga or walking can improve your mood, lower stress, and even reduce symptoms like hot flashes.


3. Nourish Your Mind

  - Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling to tackle mood swings and find clarity during this transition.


4. Lean on the Experts

  - Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) can be life-changing when tailored to your unique needs. Work with a trusted provider to find what’s best for you.


What Menopause CAN Be


This is your time to rewrite the narrative. Menopause isn’t the end of your vitality; it’s a chance to level up in every area of your life. And with the right tools, support, and mindset, you’ll come out stronger and more empowered than ever. If you have been suffering in silence and unsure of how to manage this new you, you have come to the right place. I have walked in your shoes. I understand the pain of not being in control of your emotions, body, sleep, and other symptoms that come with this change but you do not have to suffer through it.


Take the First Step Today

I’ve been there, and I’ve walked this path with countless women. That’s why I created the “Menopause Sucks but It Doesn’t Have To” course—a self-paced program designed to help you master this phase with confidence, clarity, and calm.


Click here to sign up now and let’s tackle menopause together: [Register Here](https://l.bttr.to/lkM0o).  


You’ve got this, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way. Let’s turn perimenopause and menopause from something you dread into a phase of life you absolutely own.


Juliana Garcia













By Juliana Garcia February 10, 2025
Balance Your Gut, Balance Your Hormones: The Secret No One Told You About Thriving in Midlife
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By Juliana Garcia February 9, 2024
Ah, perimenopause – that magical time when hormones play hide-and-seek with our moods and bodies. While the journey through this transitional phase can be quite the adventure, one common issue that many women face is weight gain. But fear not, because we're about to dive into the wonderful world of perimenopause and explore everything from hormonal hijinks to expert tips on keeping those pesky pounds at bay. So, grab your favorite cup of tea, settle in, and let's embark on this journey together! How Hormones Affect Weight Gain: Let's start with the basics: hormones. During perimenopause, your body's hormone levels, including estrogen and progesterone, are doing the cha-cha-cha. These hormonal fluctuations can lead to weight gain, especially around the belly area. This occurs due to the responsibilities our hormones have when it comes to other functions in our body like balancing blood sugar and controlling our cravings. Statistics reveal that approximately 30% of women between the ages of 40 and 59 experience weight gain during perimenopause. This weight gain can range from a few extra pounds to a more substantial increase, causing frustration for many. So, how do these hormones contribute to the weight gain dance? Estrogen, for instance, helps regulate metabolism and body fat distribution. It influences where body fat is stored and when levels drop, your metabolism may slow down, making it easier to pack on the pounds. Two important hormones that cause this are insulin and thyroid. Decreased Insulin sensitivity occurs leading to impaired glucose metabolism. This can contribute to conditions like insulin resistance and type 2 diabetes. Insulin resistance occurs when cells in the body become less responsive to insulin, leading to elevated blood sugar levels. Our thyroid hormone regulates metabolism and low estrogen can lead to decreased thyroid production resulting in lower levels of circulating thyroid hormones such as thyroxine (T4) and triiodothyronine (T3). As you can see, low estrogen levels can disrupt the intricate balance of thyroid hormone regulation, leading to alterations in thyroid function, metabolism, and feedback mechanisms. These changes may contribute to symptoms such as fatigue, weight changes, mood disturbances, and alterations in metabolism. It's important for individuals experiencing symptoms of thyroid dysfunction or hormonal imbalances to consult with a healthcare provider for evaluation and appropriate management. Moreover, hormonal imbalances can lead to mood swings and increased stress. And as we all know, stress can be a catalyst for emotional eating, making it even more challenging to maintain a healthy weight. When we get stressed we look for food to make us feel better and our choices go directly to sugar filled pleasing foods that contribute to our waistline. Causes of Sudden Weight Gain: Now that we've got the hormones out of the way, let's explore some of the culprits behind that sudden weight gain during perimenopause. 1. Metabolic Changes: As mentioned earlier, hormonal shifts can slow down your metabolism. But it's not just hormones; muscle mass tends to decrease as we age, which further contributes to a sluggish metabolism. This means your body burns fewer calories at rest, making it easier to gain weight. 2. Dietary Choices: The food choices we make become increasingly crucial during this time. You might notice that your body is less forgiving when it comes to indulging in those sugary treats and carb-loaded snacks. It's essential to pay attention to your diet and opt for nutrient-rich foods to maintain a healthy weight. Choosing lean proteins and fibrous carbs are a great way to stay on track with your nutrition. 3. Lack of Physical Activity: As we age, it's tempting to become more sedentary. However, regular physical activity is your best friend in the battle against perimenopausal weight gain. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise per week to keep those extra pounds at bay. Start by taking a ten minute brisk walk after each meal and increasing your times each month. Or grab your best friend and make a weekly workout routine you both can enjoy. 4. Stress and Sleep: Stress can lead to emotional eating, while poor sleep quality can disrupt hunger hormones. The combination of these factors can make weight management a real challenge. Practice stress-reduction techniques and prioritize a good night's sleep. This includes eating your last meal three hours prior to bed and cutting off electronics atleast one hour before bed. Effective Strategies for Weight Management: Now, let's get to the fun part – how to prevent or manage that perimenopausal weight gain. Remember, it's not about quick fixes but sustainable lifestyle changes. 1. Balanced Diet: Embrace a balanced diet rich in whole grains, lean proteins, fruits, and vegetables. Cut back on processed foods, sugar, and excessive caffeine. Small dietary adjustments can make a big difference. Remember this takes time and small changes each week add up. 2. Stay Active: Regular exercise is your secret weapon. Mix cardio, strength training, and flexibility exercises into your routine. Find activities you enjoy, whether it's dancing, hiking, or swimming, to stay motivated. 3. Strength Training: Don't shy away from lifting weights or doing bodyweight exercises. Building muscle can rev up your metabolism, helping you burn more calories even at rest. As we age we start losing muscle mass at a faster rate. The number one way to combat this is by lifting heavy weights. If you don’t know how, hire a professional like a certified personal trainer to teach you. I have taught thousands of women over the years how to train themselves. Learning how to keep your body strong is a skill anyone can learn. 4. Mindful Eating: Pay attention to your body's hunger and fullness cues. Avoid mindless snacking in front of the TV or computer. Mindful eating can help prevent overeating. Start having a conversation with your food and genuinely ask if it’s benefiting or inflaming you. You will know the answer immediately. 5. Stress Management: Find stress-relief techniques that work for you, such as yoga, meditation, or deep breathing exercises. Reducing stress can help curb emotional eating. 6. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If you're struggling with weight gain or other perimenopausal symptoms, don't hesitate to consult a healthcare provider. They can offer guidance, recommend hormone therapy if needed, and monitor your overall health. Many times the root cause is our hormones and if they are out of balance then a cascade of events happen leading to uncomfortable symptoms. When Should You Talk to Your Healthcare Provider About Sudden Weight Gain: Knowing when to seek professional guidance is crucial. If you're experiencing sudden and significant weight gain during perimenopause, it's advisable to discuss it with a healthcare provider. Here are some signs that indicate it's time for a chat: 1. Rapid Weight Gain: If you're gaining weight quickly, especially if it's more than 5 pounds in a month, it's essential to consult a healthcare provider. This could be a sign of underlying health issues. 2. Unexplained Changes: If you're making healthy lifestyle choices but still experiencing weight gain, it could be a hormonal imbalance or other medical condition that needs attention. 3. Other Symptoms: If weight gain is accompanied by other concerning symptoms like irregular periods, mood swings, or hot flashes, it's crucial to discuss these with your healthcare provider. It's important to mention not all doctors are well versed when it comes to a woman going through perimenopause. In fact, most doctors received six hours of lecture on this topic. You can find one that specializes in menopause at the North American Menopause Society www.menopause.org . Perimenopause may bring its fair share of challenges, including weight gain, but with the right knowledge and lifestyle adjustments, you can navigate this phase with grace and confidence. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and there are plenty of resources and experts ready to help you waltz through this with your health and well-being intact. So, let's embrace the change and find our way to a healthier, happier you! If you are looking for a community of like minded women experiencing the same symptoms and trying to navigate through this transition like your self join the "Menopause Sucks, but it does not have to" program and get the tools and guidance you need to find balance and feel optimal.
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